I am so angry. Is this normal?

It is totally normal. He gave you his worst (no job etc.) and now this guy gets his best. If I were you, I'd tell him he has 24 hours to tie up his 'loose ends' at YOUR home. You don't need to see him right now, the wounds are too fresh. Friendship with him may come later, but you now you need to heal, not see his azz all the time while he takes his sweet time getting his crap out of your house. Anger is just the first step to healing, you'll be fine and Mr. Right is out there waiting.....just for you!