MEN: If Men Like Only Hot Women, Where Does That Leave an Average Woman Like Me?

Why do dating experts for men teach them how to get the hottest women possible? Unlike women, they are rarely told to date someone they might not find attractive at first because she might grow on him. As an average looking woman (I am small chested, short, fit, well-groomed and fashionable with confidence, but I know that I am not a bombshell. I don’t make people gag, & I don’t turn heads either.), I feel that no man is going to find me desirable because all men feel that they deserve and can get the hottest woman out there. Even if I did meet a man, won't he just be thinking of the hottest women? What is the psychology behind that? Just where does that leave women like me? I'm looking for real, honest, true answers.