How do you live with someone who lies?

I used to lie over stupid things cause I figured it was better than hurting my husbands feelings but without trust a marriage or relationship can not work. This is something that you need to talk to him about calmly and since it seems like you have done that before I would suggest he go to counseling for help with his lying. sometimes it just flies out and is not even intentional it takes a lot to get over something like this especially if you grow up doing it. But it can be done and he needs to make the decision to change that. If you love him I wouldn't give up on him yet and try not to make a big deal over the small stuff it makes it easier for a person to stop lying also.