erflies in my stomache,pain inner bellyon when angered.?

Hello. my husband and I have been trying to concieve for about 8 months now,I am extremely irregular with my AF. for the past 2 weeks I have been feeling bloated and gy, and the other afternoon after chewing my husband up and spitting him out for eating the last of the crackers I definately felt a little moody to say the least!!!Immediately after the argument I felt like someone was poking me in my belly on with something. I felt this pain from the inner part of my Bellyon down to my pelvis area. the pain lasted for about 2 hours and settled into a cramp in my lower abdomen. This only happened when I was soo extremely upset, however the erflies happen every other day. the uncertainty is driving me mad!! Am I wishing too hard and making myself paranoid?? thanks for any advice you may have!! Sorry for the lengthy missive. yeah this thing is really making me bonkerz!!! who knew wanting a family would send me through so many emotional perils??? I thought making a baby was supposed to be the fun part!! LOL